STEP 1: Mope
Believe it or not, you should do this baby. Give yourself 7 days. But I myself usually 3 days is enough already. hAhAa... What you going to do is, watch crappy movies, eat ice-cream, junk food or anything you feel like to eat and feel the heartbroken and crying until you feel relief. And remember to tell yourself, “I’m going to start feeling better and I WILL get through this!!!” JuST mope yourself for about 7 days. Do it baby!!!
STEP 2 : IGNORE HIM
I know it is hard to ignore him. All you wanted to do is talk to him. Even got message from him is enough already and makes you feel happy a lotsss. But please babe... This is about YOURSELF... NOT HIM! Talking to him might seem helpful, but actually it only REOPENS THE WOUND. SO my dearest, what are you going to do is to totally lost contact. REMOVE him from your facebook friend list, DELETE his number, Remove him from you Yahoo Messenger or MSN or Skype and whatever that can connects between you and him. Remember DO NOT OPEN ANY MESSAGE OR PICK UP ANY PHONE from him. I am telling you the truth this will help you a lotsss.STEP 3 : CLEAN UP
If you strong enough to see whatever that you received from him, well just let it be. Just like me, I still manage to see all the gifts that I received from my ex-ex. My prob is only Pictures and songs. hAhAa.. For me the song is really a very sharp & strong weapon to my heart. I CANT HEAR any songs that i associated with him already. For example, Touch my body by Mariah Carey, Whatever you like by T.I and so many songs. So I will remove the old song from my list and updated my current playlist. So if let say you can’t rid of anything that reminds you of him, ask your friend to keep it for you or you can trash them for good. If let say he ask you to give back the stuffs, ask your friend to return it for you.
STEP 4 : Stay Busy
Distract yourself by always spend time together with your BFF. Just like me i got my Ggirls ^^ By the time I’m so damn sad, but when i’m with them it makes me forget the things that had happened to me. So, busy yourself with university activities, make up a plan with you office friends for the weekend, watching movie with your friends, rock climbing, go to island and do whatever activities that u have planned want to do for a long time ago. This is the right time for you. You are FREE babe~! So what are you waiting for??? JUST DO IT! Yeahh!!!
STEP 5 : Flirt
Since it’s been a while you’ve been single, so it’s time for you to look up for a new guy and open your heart. While you with him last time of course there is someone that interested on you right?! I bet you are ;) so, if you feel he is suit your criteria, good looking and so on, why don’t you just give him a try ;) come on girl! It’s time to meet someone new. Just get rid of him and prove to him that you manage to recover and can find better than him. It’s not the end of the world without him, right lady??? ;) so, what are you waiting for... Let’s find someone new ^___^ yeahh!!!
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